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Phases of Parenting under Pressure |
Facets | Adjusting to the inconceivable | Growing increasingly attached | Accommodating to the unexpected | Encountering new challenges |
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Survival parenting | Validate emotional responses | Facilitate development of appropriate vigilance | Coach parent to provide situation-appropriate vigilance | Encourage respite |
Expert parenting | Offer information to facilitate parental decision-making following diagnosis | Facilitate increasing knowledge about baby’s condition while in the hospital | Facilitate process of parent becoming the expert including their use of a weigh scale and oximeter | Translate relevant and comprehensive knowledge regarding care of child with CHD to parents over time |
“Hands-Off” parenting | Advocate for parents to have even a brief time with their newborn in the delivery room before transfer to pediatric centre | Coach parents to advocate for themselves to be as “hands-on” as possible even in critical care settings | Respect and utilize parental expert knowledge and role when child returns to hospital for subsequent procedures and surgeries | Value parent involvement |
Supported parenting | Identify and mobilize support | Encourage parents to involve extended family during hospitalization | Facilitate parent process of drawing forth support, both formal and informal | Support parents in navigating the system |
Uncertain parenting | Determine appropriate timing of intervention | Facilitate expression of grief responses through the telling of illness narratives (i.e., events around time of diagnosis) | Encourage parent-to-parent support | Supporting parents overtime |
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